SmokeNmirrors on the RealTIP
Introducing our 'Love2Love' SmokeNmirrors on the RealTIP!
By: JuLā DuCré, RMJ, Relationship Guru
Ladies, stop being his “plaything.”
When a man sees a good woman, he knows it. You do not have to persuade him or convince him that you are desirable and that he should love you. He knows your worth and will want to adore you! He needs you in his life because you complete him. Girlfriend, you are the “Ying” to his “Yang” or “Peanut Butter to his Jelly.” You do not have to get all ‘tooted’ and ‘booted’ after just a few dates; or spending a few months together. Relax, have fun, and get to know this person. Nothing is wrong with feeling enthused when you first meet a man whom you find attractive, exciting, interesting and desirable. But, you should not get “overly” excited about someone you do not even know.
1. Have you taken time to find out his good, bad and ugly qualities?
2. How does he handle stress? Do you know what turns him on/off?
3. Have you seen and ignored any warning signs or red flags?
3. Have you seen and ignored any warning signs or red flags?
Hum mm…
One of the main reasons why so many young, beautiful, talented and successful women are skillfully manipulated upon first meeting a man they “thought they knew,” is because she got caught up in the moment. Yes! He put that “thang” on her… way too soon. And, she lost her head (common sense). She thought he was the best thing she ever had.
When a guy makes you think he loves you, f##ks you, and then turns as cold as an iceberg, doesn’t talk to you, ignores your calls, text messages, e-mails and etc. You already know what time it is!
Ladies, like any job, it’s your responsibility to do your due diligence (homework) and recognize the game (smoke and mirrors). Have you ever heard the old adage that “game recognizes game?” Pull out your Trump Card if you have too. Pull it out!! But, ultimately, you will want to slow it down and take your time to find out if this person is right for you.
There’s a right time and place for everything. Most men will not marry a THOT (That Ho’ Over There) type of female. And, it has been said that “a man likes a freak in the bed and his lady in the street.” As a result, a "Thottie" will end up single again, looking for another man to latch onto.
When a guy makes you think he loves you, f##ks you, and then turns as cold as an iceberg, doesn’t talk to you, ignores your calls, text messages, e-mails and etc. You already know what time it is!
Ladies, like any job, it’s your responsibility to do your due diligence (homework) and recognize the game (smoke and mirrors). Have you ever heard the old adage that “game recognizes game?” Pull out your Trump Card if you have too. Pull it out!! But, ultimately, you will want to slow it down and take your time to find out if this person is right for you.
There’s a right time and place for everything. Most men will not marry a THOT (That Ho’ Over There) type of female. And, it has been said that “a man likes a freak in the bed and his lady in the street.” As a result, a "Thottie" will end up single again, looking for another man to latch onto.
Comments
Post a Comment